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Sales Communication Cheat Sheet

Pre-call reference. 60-second review before any buyer interaction.


Pre-Call Checklist (30 sec)

  • Outcome: What must be true at the end of this call?
  • Hypothesis: What do I believe about their reality?
  • Constraint: What is likely blocking them?
  • Labels: What negative perceptions should I name first?
  • Calibrated questions: What what / how questions open the constraint?
  • Walk-away: What signal means this is not a fit?

In-Call Rules

DoDon't
Calm tone, deliberate pace, unhurried silenceRehearse rebuttal while they speak
Follow new informationForce the script
Make refusal safeManufacture urgency
Test claims liveRely on generic description

Message Structure (6 Steps)

  1. Reality — their narrative + artifact + your model → they confirm
  2. Problem Hypothesis — mismatch + evidence + confirmation question
  3. Impact Hypothesis — quantified loss, risk, or constraint
  4. Mechanism — native capability / builder / Logic Pilot
  5. Proof — live build, demo, benchmark, or reference
  6. Choice — explicit, low-pressure next step

Capability Labels

LabelMeaning
NativeWorks out of the box
ConfiguredBuilt with the builder
IntegratedNeeds external system
RoadmapNot available; label explicitly

Rule: If a required capability is not native, disclose before recommending. Explain interim state and delivery dependency.


Tactical Empathy Tools

ToolHow
LabelTentative observation of emotion / constraint + silence
MirrorRepeat 1–3 critical words + curious tone + pause
Accusation AuditName likely negative judgments + invite correction
SummaryFacts + perspective + emotion + constraints

Confirmed only when they say "that's right" or correct you.
"You're right" ≠ alignment. Ask for detail.


Question Bank

PurposeQuestion
Open safely"Would it be a bad idea to examine where the current system stops matching the work?"
Define objective"What are we trying to accomplish operationally?"
Find constraint"What is the biggest challenge with changing this process?"
Reveal impact"How does this affect production, cash, quality, or the team?"
Test inaction"What happens if nothing changes?"
Surface stakeholders"How do the people not in this meeting see the change?"
Reject infeasible demand"How could we meet that requirement with the time and evidence currently available?"
Plan for failure"If this breaks during implementation, what should happen next?"
Define proof"What would you need to see to trust the result?"

Prefer what / how. Use why sparingly and only when non-accusatory.


Bias Response (Top 5)

BiasTriggerResponse
Status quoChange threatens continuityQuantify inaction; stage migration; define rollback
Loss aversionFear of losing ops / data / careerProtect workflows; prove continuity before cutover
AmbiguityScope or ownership unknownMake scope, timeline, controls, owners inspectable
ConfirmationPrior ERP defines expectationInvite disconfirmation; test live; expose limits
ReactancePressure threatens autonomyPreserve choice, approvals, and the right to say no

Rule: Bias = need for more safety, clarity, evidence, or control. Never manipulate the trigger.


Agreement Test

A verbal "yes" is not adoption. Real agreement requires:

  • Shared summary
  • Explicit terms
  • Implementation path
  • Affected stakeholders
  • Named owner
  • Date
  • Failure response

Verify by asking how it will be done and resolving conflicting signals.


Hard No's

  • No unsupported superlatives
  • No generic feature dumps
  • No manufactured urgency
  • No false deadlines
  • No hidden tradeoffs
  • No pressure on resistance
  • No counterfeit agreement
  • No shaming buyer responses

Product Positioning (One-Liner)

Fit without rigidity. Adaptation without consultant dependency. AI without surrendering control.

Builder is proof that customer uniqueness is modelable—not an objection.